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Linda Barrett

Linda Barrett

Linda Barrett

Starting Over ~ and Over and Over…

Empire State Building - my hometown symbol.

Empire State Building – my hometown symbol.


A few years ago, I shared the news about the  birth of my first granddaughter on my website.  One reader wrote to me and said I had to move to Florida, that I could not live a thousand miles away from a grandchild. Well…okay.  Maybe I agreed in spirit, but practical reasons prevailed then. Now, however, I know she was right!  Nothing beats living near family. So, for the fourth time in my married life, I’m starting over in a new home. Which might sound like a royal pain in the neck to many of you.

I grew up in the Empire state, in New York City, with aunts, uncles, and cousins nearby. For those of you who might imagine New York to be only a hustle and bustle place, let me assure you that family neighborhoods thrived. My childhood was secure in Jackson Heights, Queens, with many friends and real everyday people living in apartment houses, attached row houses or single family homes.

As a young married woman, I moved north to the Bay state, to a place called Worcester. I had never heard of the town and was very nervous about relocating and leaving my familiar territory. So Mike and I made weekend trips every month or six weeks back to the city to visit everyone. Both sets of parents visited us as well.  Grandchildren are such a draw! Worcester, Massachusetts became a place on the map for all of us. It took just a little time for us to settle in very well.

When our sons were in college, Mike and I headed to the Lone Star state because of a new job. Was I thrilled about moving?  No. We’d become very comfortable in Worcester and didn’t want to leave our friends behind. Who wanted to start over again? But, we did..Whether by plane or car, we headed back up north regularly. Every time LaGuardia airport came into sight, my heart raced with excitement. And two years ago, we started over in the Sunshine state.

I’ve actually loved living in all four places – New York, Massachusetts, Texas, and Florida – and feel lucky to have tasted life in various sections of this beautiful country. What can beat genuine Texas B-B-Q or the casual lifestyle? “Hey, y’all. How’re doing?” Texas Friendly is what I call it.  And what can be more breath-taking than the blazing autumn foliage of New England, or more fun than apple picking time? I scarfed up the clam chowder and lobster whenever they were on sale.

The time it took to transition from tourist to resident, adapting to the culture of each region, became shorter with each move. But no amount of regional delights could erase my New Yawk beginnings.

It seems to me that ‘starting over’ is NOT a problem that interrupts your life. It’s simply part of the  long adventure that IS your life. Whether it’s a new home, or a new husband, I think starting over enriches the journey. While my New York roots remain strong, and I will always reach for a second cup of cawfee, a glass of Florida orange juice tastes very sweet, too. .

I’ve set several of my stories in New England and Texas. Oddly enough, The Soldier and the Rose, a WWII love story, was the only book I’ve written that took place in New York City. Are there any native New Yorkers out there reading this blog? How about visitors to my hometown? Or is New York the last place on earth you’d go?

DRAWING!  Post a comment and you’ll be entered into a drawing for a copy of Family Interrupted. Winner chosen tonight!  Will post winner’s name on Thursday.

I post a new blog every Tuesday and Thursday.  Hope to see you for the next episode of Starting Over.

Best always,



5 thoughts on “Starting Over ~ and Over and Over…

  1. Moving is definitely a pain. But the best part is seeing new areas of the country you may never have seen. And finding new friends you’d never have met. I’ve lived in Miami, New York (Pelham), New Jersey (Boonton), Baltimore, Pittsburgh, Chicago–all before age 20–San Francisco, Seattle, San Diego, and the Outer Banks of North Carolina. Now we’re talking about moving to Raleigh for the same reason as you! IMO, Linda, you’re the type of person who will always make friends wherever she goes because… Well, because you’re you!

  2. I guess I have a different take on moving. My husband was in the Air Force, and sometimes we were near family (within two hours) and sometimes we weren’t. Our son was in 4 different schools by the time he finished second grade. Not always easy, but our children learned to be self-confident, a gift now that they are grown.

    • Hi Louise – I know military moves come often and can be hard on everyone in the family. But as you say, there are positive outcomes. I’m glad your children turned out strong and independent. I think we all want that for our kids. As an aside, many military families live near us, and when they move, it is my granddaughter who is left behind and sad to see her friends leave. Thanks for writing.

  3. Hey Linda,

    I hope you know that The Soldier and the Rose is one of my all-time favorite books. I’ve read it at least three times, maybe more.

    Last October, I visited NYC for the first time. I didn’t know if I would like it or not. Our son lives in Brooklyn Heights and works just off Times Square. I must confess I fell in LOVE with New York!!! We had a fabulous time and stayed right in Midtown Manhattan. Everyone was very friendly, and it didn’t take long to get used to the hustle-bustle of Manhattan.
    Anyway, we miss you here in Texas.

    Anne Marie 🙂

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